Today is (almost was) Father's Day. I cooked. I baked. I thought of many things. I sent out a few messages. I didn't even post anything about my Dad or Father's Day or ... this year has been different. very different. Pudding My Dad is getting older. He is still doing his best to fend … Continue reading 45/2021/39: Father’s Day
Tag: relationships
2020: 39
23 November 13 x 3 = 39 I miss you. I was considering checking in. I decided not to. Because sometimes you have to close the door and / or burn the bridge. It makes me sad. I didn't get the chance to know you as the friend I wanted to. So much we could … Continue reading 2020: 39
2020: 68
25 October Investment. Return on investment (roi). Thoughts on it. How do we invest in our relationships? And what is the expected return on investment when you make an intentional choice to invest? And what if the return is not what you thought / calculated / hoped it would be? Hmmm ... Disappointment maybe? My … Continue reading 2020: 68
2020: 83
10 October Rest day.Slept late.Had oats for breakfast.Ordered food for early dinner.Finished a tiny little surprise project for a friend.Loved doing it. Smiled through the entire thing. Love lives here. I've learnt a thing or two about love being single 'my entire life' - meaning no significantly serious relationship I can think of in retrospect … Continue reading 2020: 83
Day 16: 44 to 44 at 4:44
The Uncles. Over years I have found myself participating in various groups with diverse demographics. Some groups were cool and felt safe and other groups, well, not so much. The reason? Well, I'm single and it seemed that being single makes you a target of unwanted attention ... especially the married kind. At some point … Continue reading Day 16: 44 to 44 at 4:44
23:38 – MoThErS
Relationships between Mothers and Daughters. I can only speak from my own. It's late and I'm tired. A friend of mine lost her Mom this past weekend. I wondered what it would feel like to have a daughter. Not for a moment it crossed my mind that I might lose my Mom any time soon. … Continue reading 23:38 – MoThErS