Today I disagreed (internally) with something someone did, said, decided ... I didn't feel like saying what I thought because I had before and clearly it wasn't taken into consideration. And then there's the tone ... There are things that was part of my growing up that makes me feel unsafe when it happens. I … Continue reading 45/2021/30: Safe spaces
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01 November 2020 1/11/20201:1:1 Yesterday made me aware of something.I am the one and I am not the one.When I want to be the one, I am not.When I don't want to be the one, I am.Typing this has me smiling. Reading this almost has me laugh out loud. I learnt a few things this … Continue reading 2020: 61
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24 October Friendship today started with cake and cappuccino’s for breakfast. Hummingbird cake ... yum. It was delicious! Check in conversation, sustainable coffee mugs with the logo: stay rooted. Significant. The coffee was good. Cake was delish. Company was friendship = great! Idea sharing, product discussions, new possibilities. The inimitable Ms P. I thank you. … Continue reading 2020: 69
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21 October Today.Wax day.Help day.Fix day.Coffee day.Check in day.Interesting day. Not sure if it's got to do with the moon or the stars or the heat or the wind or Paarl Rock or ... something was different today. Quite interesting. My car is my safe space (at the moment). The place where I think, speak, … Continue reading 2020: 72
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Just Laugh! I used to laugh a lot. A lot a lot. I used to have loads of fun. I was very intentional about laughing, seeing something that is laugh-worthy. Real laughter I'm talking about, the laughter that starts from absolute joy and enjoyment. I never really thought about it but I've been laughing much … Continue reading Day 23: 44 to 44 at 4:44
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The Uncles. Over years I have found myself participating in various groups with diverse demographics. Some groups were cool and felt safe and other groups, well, not so much. The reason? Well, I'm single and it seemed that being single makes you a target of unwanted attention ... especially the married kind. At some point … Continue reading Day 16: 44 to 44 at 4:44
Day 14: 44 to 44 at 4:44
Intentionality: Friendship Since my brother mentioned intentionality years ago it's been a growing thought throughout my thoughts, actions, words and relationships. What is my intention when and how I say or do something? What is my intention in a relationship? Why am I in this relationship / friendship? Am I there for a specific goal? … Continue reading Day 14: 44 to 44 at 4:44
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